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STYLELIFE ACADeMY

ULTIMATE Training program

WHAT’S IN THE GUIDE One of the most important ways you can go

This is a guide to help students who are either enrolled in Stylelife’s Ultimate Training Program, or for students thinking about joining.

about making that all-important change is by refusing to let others in your life keep you from making the bold move. It’s unfortunate,

This guide contains articles about the features of the Stylelife Ultimate Training Program:

but sometimes even our friends can intention-

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How to Practice Seduction

opment because they want things to remain as

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they are. When you grow and change, they feel

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Preparing for a Bootcamp

threatened. You must convince them that your

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The Stylelife Girl Interviews

metamorphosis is something you’re dedicated

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The Stylelife Video Training Series

to pursuing and that it’s a positive thing.You can

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The Ultimate Training Masterclass

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Private Phone Coaching

I receive several hundred emails a day. Here’s a

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Group Phone Coaching

sampling from today’s mailbag:

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Using The Stylelife Elite Forum

STUDENT TESTAMONIALS “In-field is where the magic happens.The instructors strategically observe us, wing us, and correct us.Their excellent at pickup and have the skills to effectively impart this knowledge onto the students.” - Ezekiel “The generosity of the coaches and their wealth of knowledge was overwhelming. Incredibly giving individuals. Each one of them took time to share with me.” - Holistic “Changed my life.” - Major “Thanks for making such a huge impact on my life you guys are helping men not just to become better lovers, but better people.” - Aaron “This weekend was insane. I cold approached more women than I ever have in my life. The coaches showed me a level of care and personal growth that I think is extremely rare for the industry.” - Mr. X “I can’t say I’ve had an experience with such a profound reach into who I am, where I’m from, and where I’m going until this bootcamp. It’s the beginning of a new era. Thanks for such well organized and executed training.” - Ryan “I had the most amazing time of my life.” - Kylar

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ally (and not so innocently) hinder our devel-

Letters to style

“hi style how are you? I think that cool well I would like to girls pay attention to my could you help me? thanks” I think it’s a haiku. Actually, it brings up a good point. And that is whenever I talk to people who don’t get it, they think that the game changes depending on where one lives. They think there is always an exception. “Yeah, but I live in a really small town,” or “The women here are different,” and so forth. The fact is, everywhere—regardless of big cities or small towns, Western countries or remote Eastern villages, permissive societies or more restrained areas—men want women to pay attention to them. The mannerisms and interactions may change slightly, but that simple desire for attention is universal. And, everywhere, women pay attention to the same thing.

even elicit their help or encourage them to improve themselves as well. However, if they’re unwilling to go along for the ride, then sometimes you simply have to reduce—or eliminate—the time you spend with them. It’s a bold and challenging move to re-shift your priorities away from people who hold you back. But in a way, that’s what this whole thing is about: being bold. Another example of the important ways you can make the bold change necessary to attract female attention is to take up space. One of the crucial body language lessons you will learn in at Stylelife is to “take up space,” to lounge through the world as though every nightclub, restaurant, and coffee shop is your own personal living room. You should be polite certainly, but don’t withdraw into yourself, don’t cram yourself into the corner, and don’t meekly sit on the edge of a couch. Instead, boldly take up the space you deserve. Similarly, the simple act of learning to stand out is a bold gesture for many men. Learn to dress in a cool, eye-catching manner that reflects your personal style. Be confident enough to perform magic illusions or palm readings or other Demonstration of Higher Value (DHV) strategies. Learn to stand out by telling engaging and entertaining stories. Learn to accept the spotlight

Hopefully, you all are using all what the Ultimate

of attention instead of wilting away from it.

Training Program offers to make those changes to get the attention you’ve always wanted, from

Yet another important and bold change is to

the way you present yourself to the way you

move confidently through the world. At lot of

conduct yourself.

simple magazine articles or self-help texts will

tell you, “be more confident.” But confidence isn’t just a switch you can flip on and off.You have to build up to it.That’s why the missions in the Stylelife Academy present information and challenges to you in small chunks. You master a small task, store away the confidence gained by doing a job well, and then move on to a bigger challenge. Stack your successes and reflect on what you’ve accomplished so you can ultimately reach a point where you move confidently through the world. At the same time, it is vitally important to remember that you should never take yourself too seriously. We’re all familiar with guys who are so obsessive about something that they drain the life out of a room.They feel their attempt to write a novel, increase their max bench press, or to book a pilot television show must be the center of every conversation. They think we should all bow down and be amazed at their supposed determination. Don’t be that guy. Instead, be dedicated to your transformation, be determined. But remember to have fun. This journey of building the social life of your dreams should be a joy—a challenging one, sure—but a time you will look back upon with great fondness. Laugh at your experiences and even yourself when necessary. Don’t take yourself so seriously that you become one of

HOW TO PRACTICE SEDUCTION Seduction is a skill that occasionally rises to the level of an art form.These great artistic seductions stay with you for your entire life. Whether, it’s meeting the woman of your dreams, having a unique sexual adventure, or just making a great friend - you won’t forget it. Seduction, like all skills, requires practice, and means time, focus, and persistence. Let me explain what that means: Time: Get started by finding one night a week to practice, if you have the time try to stay out for three hours.This will give you plenty of time to get accustomed to the venue and accomplish a few simple goals.

those boorish guys no one wants to be around. Treat this as “classroom time.” By that I mean, the venue is your dojo, it’s These bold changes to the way you present yourself and conduct yourself

where you come to practice. During this time you’re not out to socialize,

will trigger the transformation you desire. Don’t lose time and focus wor-

your out to practice something that just happens to be social in nature.

rying about how your situation (or job or hometown or financial status) is so incredibly unique and specific. Instead, remember that women every-

Focus: This program will throw a lot of techniques at you. In the end,

where pay attention to the same thing. Make those bold changes and you’ll

you won’t use all of them. Choose a few that you think will work for you

learn firsthand about that attention.

and practice them. During your classroom time, write down (and I mean write down, not type out) one technique or series of techniques to work on. Practice what you’ve chosen all night, then come home and write about it in a field report. (More about writing field reports on page 6.) This focus will help you improve specific aspects of the art form. It’s similar

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to practicing forms or katas in martial arts, drills in sports, and working specific body parts in the gym.Trying to practice everything in the art form is impossible, focus on specific pieces and put them together over time, as you improve. Persistence: Seduction can be a tough skill to practice, because the only way to improve at it is to practice in a social environment, and sometimes that means facing rejection. It’s all part of the art. Anyone who says they’ve never been rejected while practicing this is lying, selling you something or both.Think of it like strumming a bad note while learning guitar, it’s going to happen, when you start, but it will happen less and less as you continue to improve. The only way you won’t get better is to quit - don’t quit.

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How to prepare for a bootcamp A message from Evolve and The Sneak: We want to express our genuine excitement to meet and work with you in person. Every bootcamp is an extraordinary experience for us. We never grow bored of seeing the transformations that take place before our

THE STYLELIFE BOOTCAMP The fastest way to improve your game

very eyes. Dress Code Every bootcamp has at least a one hour break be-

We all know the pain of failing with women.

How do I sign up?

Sometimes you meet someone amazing, but she

The Ultimate Training Program has a bootcamp

doesn’t feel the same way. That stunning model

included in the price. Once you’re paid in full, log

ball caps), flip-flops, sandals, tennis shoes or athletic

in the club is too intimidating to approach or

on to the ultimate training program dashboard,

shoes, t-shirts, collarless shirts or torn or baggy jeans.

perhaps you seem to always befriend girls, but

just sign up for the event in the city where you’d

Show up to the bootcamp wearing a nice pair of dress

can’t figure out how to create a romantic spark.

like to take your bootcamp.

shoes along with a collared shirt and/or sports coat.

Well, what if you could learn to be your true,

How long are bootcamps?

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authentic self, and women found that version of you to be irresistible? Well, you can.

The bootcamps are three days long, they start at 5pm on Fridays, and end at approximately 6pm

In 2005, Neil Strauss wrote “The Game.” Men

on Sunday. They consist of three lecture por-

everywhere read it and tried to change their

tions and two nights in-field.

lives. They wanted to experience the thrill of meeting and connecting with high quality women. Results varied. Among the masses Neil met Evolve and The Sneak, two men who’d found extreme success in this form of self improvement. They both followed this important piece of advice: You can’t learn this stuff just reading e-books. You have to make lots of approaches. Neil Strauss, Evolve, and The Sneak created a

Do I have to be skilled at seduction to attend? Negative. Our goal is to get someone of any skill level to the next level. Just bring a notebook and an open mind. What is covered in a bootcamp?

tween the lecture and the in-field portion. The venues we attend may be enforcing the following dress code: No athletic wear of any kind (shorts, jersies, hoddies,

Bootcamps consist of two main sections lecture and field work. Friday and Saturday, consist of class time followed by a night out, with specific social goals we’re going to be setting for each of you. Once you complete your nightly missions you’re free to do what you want, but we suggest getting home and getting some rest, especially on Friday night. This is because, Saturday is a very long day – 10 hours of class time followed by a very long night out –you want to be as awake and energized as possible. Drinking Rules Let’s get this out of the way, Jay and I love good beer

Nearly everything. From what to do before you

and delicious cocktails, however when we’re out prac-

make your first approach to sex and relation-

ticing seduction material, we don’t touch the stuff. So

ships.

here’s the deal with drinking during bootcamps.You’re not allowed to do it, unless one of the following two

How many people can attend a bootcamp?

exceptions comes up:

study the skill of the cold approach and the art

To make sure our students get as much atten-

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of seduction. You’ll learn and practice the tools

tion as possible, we offer nine spots maximum,

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until you’re ready and then go out to bars and

And have a minimum of one coach per three

talk to the women you want to meet.

students.

program that embraces this philosophy. You’ll

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You finish your goals for the night. Someone you meet in the nightly venue buys you a drink.



A: I think because I’m such an independent person and like a little bit of a control freak. Not a control freak, but I like to take care of things and be in control. I don’t like needing people for other things. SL: Outside of the bedroom? A: Outside of the bedroom. So I think when I go into the bedroom, I like to have the opposite of that and just like to be taken care of and just told what to do and not worry about it. Because, I worry about everything so much on the outside, but when I go there, I kind of want to turn it off.

Stylelife Girl Interview April O’Neil

SL: What’s the most common way that a guy hits on you? A: A lot of guys talk to me when I’m at bars. I can’t think of anything that peaked my interest though. They say really mundane, average things. What drink are you drinking? Are you from

SL: That’s a turnoff.

The person submitting is actually the one with

body not liking you, even though you really like

the power.

them, that’s desirable. SL: It’s extremely important. A: It’s a weird chase thing.

SL: How does it make you feel when they ask

SL: Do you think a guy can benefit from study-

that stuff?

ing the art of seduction?

A: Bothered. It’s like, oh you’re talking to me and

A: I do, yeah. I think you can improve at anything

I should just talk back out of niceness. But, you

if you actually try and do the research. You can

haven’t peaked my interest with anything excit-

up your skill level, you just have to put enough

ing or interesting.

effort into it. Practice it enough. Learn to hold

ing and interesting. On paper, he is great, but you still aren’t sexually interested. A: Yeah.

conversations, be an interesting person, say the right things. You could be using to get in some girls pants or you could just want to be a more talkative and interesting.  SL: What’s the sexiest thing that anyone has

SL: What is he missing? What is that ingredient?

ever done for you?

A: Let me think. It’s a level or a balance of their

A: I personally like to be rather submissive in

desire to have you desire them. There are some

A: Yeah, I’m asking you to tell me what to do. There’s an interesting thing in sexual submission.

A: A little bit yeah. If you’re okay with some-

here? Do you come here a lot?

SL: Try to think of a guy you know who is excit-

SL: An expression of your feminine energy.

the bedroom and like to be just kind of held

SL: Um, tell me about that. A: The person dominating, while they may be the one saying do this or do that or whatever, the submissive is the one that ultimately has the power to be say, “no I don’t want that actually.” Like this is the code word, or these are the things I am willing to do to have done to me. So they actually technically have that power. SL: How does somebody form that trust? How does somebody get into the position of being a dom, if that’s something they want to do and they’ve never done before?  How do you forge that with someone? A: If you’re talking about interpersonal relationship with people you know, then it’s definitely a thing that needs to be discussed a lot to get ground rules and wants and dislikes discovered and there is definitely a trust thing.

people that, yeah you’re great, and you like me,

down sometimes. I don’t know. I like it.

Read the full Stylelife Girl Interivews on the

but maybe you like me too much.

SL: Why do you think that is?

dashboard of the Ultimate Training Program.  

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MASTERCLASS

This is your chance to hang out with Neil Strauss AKA Style. The Masterclass is a yearly event, that you’re invited to, that is part of the Ultimate Training program.The cost of your seat is incldued when you join the Ultimate Training Progrm. The Masterclass is generally held every summer

THE ULTIMATE TRAINING VIDEO SERIES EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW

Picture this: Weekly classes on the game by the man who wrote the book The Game. Neil Strauss

in Los Angeles. The Masterclass constists of three parts: 1. A two-day lecture with Neil.

will be your guide teaching you everything you need to know from A-Z. Every single topic is covered,

Neil discusses his newest thoughts, techniques,

from the most basic opening tips, to super advanced lifestyle techniques.

and stories about seduction.

This is by far the most comprehensive video series Neil ever filmed. It’s delivered to you once week

2. A Graduation ceremony for students who’ve

over the course of 8 months to give you time to digest the material, practice it, and ask any directly

made it through the whole 8-month program.

questions to Neil and his top coaches (see Phone Coaching section on page 6). Evolve and The Sneak will give students an exam, Here’s a glimpse at what’s covered throughout each of the modules: Module 1: Approaching and Inner Game Module 2: Creating an Attractive Appearance and Authentic Identity Module 3: Generating Attraction, Flirting, and Building Value Module 4: Getting her Number and Physical Escalation Module 5: Dating and Avoiding the Friend Zone Module 6: Next Level Connection and Deep Rapport Module 7: Arousal and Advanced Sexual Technique Module 8: Relationships Threesomes and Lifestyle

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and each student who passes will go home with a graduation certificate. 3. A party hosted by Stylelife with Neil Strauss and his coaches. A yearly graduation party for all the students who attend the Masterclass, Students can hang with Neil, his coaches and the Stylelife Girls

Technique

COACHING CALLS

THE ELITE FORUM

Your first practice session may feel overwhelming. You try to recall the events, but few specifics come to mind. Perhaps moments of being nervous, but not the important things you can learn the most from. This is because your social memory is just beginning to develop. By writing field reports, it develops much faster. Suddenly, you remember a certain thing you said, and exactly how she responded. In time, more and more of the details are clear. You remember a girl glancing at you while you were chatting with her friends. You remember your body language being laid back, leaning

Private 1-on-1 calls

Group Coaching Calls

As a member of our Ultimate Training Program

What if you could get on the phone to discuss

A good forum is a powerful tool and the

you are more to us than just a customer. You

this issue with one of the world’s leading ex-

Stylelife Elite Forum is the best. With Evolve

are a friend, who we want to see experience

perts in seduction?

and The Sneak personally answering your

As a member of the Ultimate Training Program,

you’ll get the feedback you need to improve

you can.

with every practice session. Soon, you’ll call

the type of success you’ve only dreamed about. We will be there for your every step of the way, answering each of your questions and helping you past any difficult challenge points you face. In addition to live face-to-face training with Neil and his top coaches, you’ll have constant phone support both before, and after, your bootcamps and seminars.

posts, and support from your fellow students,

In addition to private, personal, hour long coaching calls, you’ll also have access to group chats. In

move at the best possible time. Having you as a member of our community

most recently developed strategies, techniques,

is important to us, we all learn and grow to-

and routines, keeping you on the cuttng edge

gether, so your membership to the forum is

of The Game.

lifetime access. Even when the program ends

We record all the group calls. So, if for some rea-

is holding you back most with women, or a spe-

son the group call is at a bad time for you, just

cific scenario with one woman in particular.

check your dashboard to see if the recorded call

Every other month in the Ultimate training pro-

upon your social memory to give you the best

these sessions Style and his coaches debut their

The one hour coaching calls are 1-on-1. Ask any questions you may have. Reflect on what

against the bar.

has been uploaded.

with encourage you to stick around. Soon enough, you’ll be teaching the lessons to the newer guys, which solidifies them in your own mind and helps him get to the next level. Plus, if you encounter a more advanced “problem,”

gram you will be issued a coaching call credit.

The group calls are accompanied by an online

say, dealing with multiple girls at once, we still

Which you can use to reserve a one hour time

flash chat on the forum, Where you can commu-

have your back.

slot with Evolve or The Sneak.

nicate with your peers while the call is in session.

We look forward to seeing you on the boards and reading your first post!

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